“Don’t accept your dog’s admiration as conclusive evidence that you’re wonderful.” – Ann Landers
Oh, why not? If we could, wouldn’t we be the most loved, appreciated, sought after people in the world? My rat terrier/lap dog has the uncanny ability to make me feel welcome home whether I’ve been gone five minutes or five hours, she wants to snuggle at all times – no strings attached, and she never seems to get tired of me no matter what I’m doing.
Maybe dogs are too good for our self-esteem. Maybe they make us believe we really are awesome! Can their constant devotion blow up our egos? Nah, surely not!
In my latest writings, I’m dealing with a woman whose pride has been battered and destroyed. The character has been humiliated at work, abandoned by her husband, and now is struggling with overcoming the abuse her pride has taken. I’m quickly introducing a puppy into the story – what better way to help her get over her sorrows? Even though pride can be a tricky trap into believing your better than others, I think for most it’s way more simple. It’s simply wondering if you’re worth the space you take up on earth.
Maybe pride comes and goes. Maybe for some it’s an ego trip. Maybe for others it’s only a sense of accomplishment. Maybe for most it’s only feeling happy that in that moment, on that day, things went as they should.
My goal with this new character is to pull her out of her misery while helping her discover her self-worth. Not sure how I’m going to get her there yet but I do know a lost, pitiful puppy, an old house and an aging grandmother are going to be in the mix. Just as with children, there’s nothing like the love of an animal to snap you out of your own world – whether it’s pride-filled or sorrow-filled – and I hope to take that feeling into my new story.
Have you ever had an animal that adored you, that maybe even saved you from self-pity or depression? What about an animal that became your companion or friend?