There has been a lot of talk lately about being given more than you can handle…or precisely not being given more than you can handle in a bad situation. The old saying goes something like God won’t give you more than you can handle. Those words have been pounding through my brain the past few days trying to find the truth.
Is it true that we will never be given more than we can handle? Or did some (albeit kind but demented) person create the tag line? I recently read that it never says those exact words in the Bible.
So…who came up with it?
Our small town has been slammed with death and heartache lately. Just this past weekend, a five-year old girl was killed in a tragic car accident. She leaves behind heartbroken, devastated parents. Are we to believe that these people can handle this situation? Are they stronger than the rest of us?
In my worst moments, the moments I just couldn’t see passed the next minute or the next hour, I remember thinking those words. I remember thinking, “Okay, God, I love you and all, but I’m not this strong. I promise. I just can’t do this.” And in those moments, I begged for His help, His strength because I knew it was beyond my realm to survive it alone.
But I did survive. Somehow, I continued moving and eating and breathing even though it was terribly ugly to watch. So how did I do it? How did I survive?
I survived because of God. I survived because I could not do it alone and for that reason, I depended on Him more than I had ever before. During the worst, maybe that’s the point. Maybe we should rely on God. He’s infinitely stronger and wiser and more capable than we’ll ever be, and I’m thankful He’s willing to tote me around when I’m at my worst.
And honestly, needing Him that much has made my relationship with Him stronger than ever before.
My heart aches for the family of this little girl. She attended the school where I work, and her teacher was left with the gut-wrenching job of dealing with her classmates. Another colleague told her class about the accident and simply told them that sometimes in life bad things happen. The little ones nodded their heads, taking her words to heart. They can and will accept that their friend is now in Heaven much easier than many adults will.
For those struggling with too much to bear, there are no words, not really. Only know many are thinking of you and praying for you, and you are never alone.